Posts Tagged ‘sisters’
K adores M. There are times when K just watches whatever M is doing. She just observes her big sisters actions. Then suddenly, she’s trying to do the same thing.
It could be a small action. M was touching her tooth one morning. K was just observing. Suddenly, K starts touching her touching her tooth in the exact same way M was.
It could be big actions. M was jumping around and dancing to a song on the television. Without any hesitation, K got up, jumped and danced around like her sister.
K learned how to ‘freeze dance’ just by playing with her sister. We use the songs already loaded on our electronic keyboard. When I turn the volume all the way down, the dancers freeze. When the music comes back up, they dance. It’s so funny watching the girls ‘freeze dance’ because K usually follows whatever frozen pose M finds herself in. It’s very cute.
That picture above? That’s at Costco. M was leaning forward and kicking the shopping card behind her. It took K awhile to figure out how to drape herself over the cart handle. I had to show her to put her arms over to prevent her from hitting her head on the cart. However, once she got it, she was trying her best to get her little feet and legs to reach that back of the cart like her sister.
Gotta love little sisters!
First off, I can’t believe those are my kids! When did they get so old?
Secondly, when did I start dressing them all ‘matchy matchy?’ That was totally unintentional. (Confession: I ended up wearing a heather gray top that day too. It was completely coincidental.)
I can’t get over how sweet this picture is. We were about to leave to run some errands. I was gathering things to take out the door with me. K decided to distract herself with the iPad.
I was just about to tell them to go, when I witnessed this.
M was helping K with the ‘Alphabet with Elmo’ app. It’s currently K’s favorite. She loves the letters and loves the little videos that correspond to each letter. It’s a bit advanced for her because the app requires the child to trace the letter before unlocking the video. K tries her best, but at 18months, it’s not good enough to unlock the videos.
Big sister, M, to the rescue!
I love watching them work together. I love that they can share (sometimes!).
I just had to snap the picture and capture the moment before getting them out the door for the day.
It really is those small moments that make me so happy!
M – first born
She’s intense. She’s ‘in your face’ but in the super friendly way. She sees wants to be everyone’s friend the second she meets you. She doesn’t understand personal space because she just wants to be your best friend. She’s super sweet. She’s affectionate. She’s funny. She’s opinionated. She’s understanding and can ‘go with the flow’ in most circumstances. She’s articulate. She’s innocent. She never means anyone any harm. She can lose control because she gets so excited and happy about the smallest and simplest situations. She is a fun, but strong, personality.
K – the baby
She’s a bit quieter. She’s a bit more reserved. She can run and laugh with her sister, but you can tell she holds back a little bit more than M does. While M openly laughs loudly, K can be seen giggling demurely with her hand over her mouth. She’s a bit more cautious when it comes to other kids. She’s learning to be more friendly, but hasn’t gotten too close to people she doesn’t know. She’s opinionated. She’s strong willed. She’s a fighter. She won’t give in. She will make known when she is unhappy. She’s a little more serious. She shows affection on her terms and doesn’t like to be bothered with random hugs and kisses (especially when she’s in the middle of something). She’s the baby and it definitely shows.
I’m loving how their personalities are shaping and changing. I love the similarities. I love the differences. I love watching them interact and how their personalities affect how they play and deal with each other.
All this time, I always thought that the jealousy would come from M. I always thought that M would be the more jealous one. She’s my first born. For the first three years of her life, she’s been the only one. Naturally, I thought that she would be the one that would act out whenever she’d see me hold her sister.
It’s all K.
K, at 15 (almost 16) months old, is very possessive.
Whenever she sees me cuddle with her big sister, she immediately wants in.
“Neh! (No!)” K says, as she pulls my arm away from her big sister.
“Arrr-mah (Arm)” K says, as she takes my arm away from her big sister and hugs it for herself.
Sometimes I feel so bad at the amount of attention I give K at the moment. K is at that age where she needs to be watched like a hawk and I feel like M gets a little put aside. M has been very understanding and will usually find ways to work with us, or will usually find ways to entertain herself.
I try to steal little moments with M. It’s so interesting to see K’s reaction. I wasn’t expecting K to be so territorial with me.
It’s a good thing this mommy has two “arr-mahs,” one for each of my girls.
M and K have been sisters for a little over 15 months now.
Sometimes, they are the best of friends.
Other times, they are screaming at each other and playing tug-of-war with whatever object they are vying for.
M provides K with endless entertainment and inspiration.
K is that little sister that wants to do every thing and any thing her sister does.
M still doesn’t understand her own strength and often thinks K is just another playmate like her preschool friends. There are times where I fear M will hurt K for being too rough. However, K LOVES the attention and hardly ever shows she’s hurt if she gets knocked down by M. It’s as if she doesn’t want to ruin the moment by crying or getting hurt. She just wants to play with her big sister.
K as perfected the art of teasing her sister. She loves to grab something that M wants to play with, run up to M, and just when M tries to take the object, K will sprint as far away as she can from her sister. M doesn’t always find it amusing, but I have to give that girl some credit for the amount of patience she has for her little sister.
M has cried on occasion due to K being a little too rough or fiesty with her. It doesn’t happen too often, but when it does, it breaks my heart a little. M has tremendous patience for K, so when she finally breaks down and cries, I know she’s hit her limit.
K’s vocabulary is growing exponentially with help from her big sister. She loves to copy whatever M says and we are constantly surprised whenever we hear her successfully repeat a word.
Overall, life with two girls is just fun. No sarcasm. It really is fun. I love watching their relationship grow. I love watching them play. I love watching them laugh. I love watching them hug.
You can read their first status report, here.
We’re six months into their lives as sisters and I have to say that their time together just gets better and better.
Yes, I know that there will come a point in their lives when the fighting will start, but I’m going to revel in their joy and harmony and cherish every second of their happiness together.
With K sitting and crawling, it’s easier for them to do things together now. It’s fun to watch them play with the same toys.
I love watching K observe how M handles and plays with certain toys and objects. I feel like K is learning so much from all simple acts of playing together.
K still adores M. K is always full of smiles when M is around and giving her attention. The hardest we’ve ever witnessed K laugh was due to M’s silly dancing. Just watching how K looks at M, I know that she is going to look up to her sister in every way.
M still loves K. “I love my little sister,” is often heard coming out of M’s mouth. M loves K’s fuzzy hair. M loves hugging and kissing her little sister. M loves having K lie down next to her. M is very patient when K begins to climb all over her, or when K decides to pull on her hair. M doesn’t fight back. M just lets it all happen. She’s such a good big sister.
I’m hoping that these feelings they have toward each other continue to grow. I hope it never changes, even through all the fighting and disagreements they will encounter growing up, I hope the remember how much they adore and love each other.
Hope you all have a fun and safe Fourth of July holiday. We will be celebrating with family and I hope to have a blog update on our holiday next week!