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In some random conversation, Hubby and I were talking about what age we met each other.
He had just turned 30. I was 27.
The conversation then progressed into the following…
Me: And it was all downhill from there.
Me: How sad, you could at least say something nicer..
Hubby: Yes dear. It was all UPHILL from there. Me: ….
Somehow, that didn’t seem like a nicer response….
April 5th marked the 8 year anniversary of Hubby and I meeting for the first time.
Tradition dictated that we eat Korean BBQ to celebrate.
Eight years ago, I was unaware that the guy I was too shy to sit next to would be the father of my two precious daughters.
Eight years ago, I was unaware that the guy I ended up giving my rice to (because he had run out) would be the man that works so hard to allow me to live my dream of a stay at home mother.
If I could go back, I would tell my “eight years ago self” to sit next to him. He’s the one. Enjoy the ride because it’s an interesting one.
Happy “first meeting” anniversary, Hubby. I love you.
With preschool just around the corner, I’ve been working on training M to have an earlier bedtime. We’ve been making good progress and she’s usually in bed by 8:30pm and asleep by 9:00pm. Of course, I’m with her until she falls asleep. Once she’s asleep, I get to go downstairs and hang out with Hubby.
By the time I get downstairs, K is either on her last bottle, or asleep.
Once the kids are asleep, Hubby and I get to spend time together.
It feels like it’s been YEARS since we’ve had alone time together. We actually talk about things, sometimes its the kids, sometimes it’s about TV, sometimes it’s about his work…
The point is… we talk!
It’s pretty refreshing and it’s been a great relationship booster.
I think we get so consumed with parenthood and just trying live our lives from day to day that we’ve forgotten about us.
I’m glad that these early bedtimes are allowing us to reconnect.
Hubby and I have a guilty pleasure.
90 Day Fiance.
We got sucked into the marathon of last season’s shows when TLC was premiering the new season of the show. Since then, we’ve been DVRing the series and watching them together.
I know. It’s TLC. It’s not great TV. But for some reason, we’ve been sucked in.
I’m usually the one that gets sucked into the reality TV on TLC, but this time Hubby is just as into it.
I guess you can call it a bonding experience for us…
Whatever works to keep us happy and together.. right??
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It’s that time of the year when I start looking back at Hubby and my relationship.
Today marks the 6th year anniversary of the very first day we met. We met at a Korean BBQ restaurant, so in continuing our tradition, we will be eating Korean BBQ for one of our meals today. Yum!
It’s an understatement to say that we’ve grown a lot in these past six years. We’ve truly become a family.
We’ve had our share of adjustments, especially when M came along, it was a major adjustment.
I feel that only in the past year or so that we’ve finally found our stride again. We are laughing more, sharing more, cuddling more.
Because M was born so fast into our marriage, we had to learn how to become husband and wife AND parents all at once. I don’t regret having M so soon into our marriage, but I will say that it was a major jolt to the relationship. It wasn’t bad, it was just different. We shook up our dynamic by bringing in a child so soon. It’s been work getting us to this point, and I feel like we are finally at an equalibrium. We’ve found our balance between married and parents. We’ve found our stride. We’ve found our routine.
I know that eventually we will be bringing in another child into the mix (no, not pregnant yet). There will be another round of adjustments. There will be another time of unbalance and uncertainty. There will be ups and downs. There will be laughter and tears.
But I know that we are a team, and above all, we are a family. We will always find a way to work together and make it work.
There’s no one else I’d rather go through life with..
Happy “first meeting” anniversary, Hubby!
When Hubby and I became engaged back in 2010, I swore it was a day that I’ll never forget.
Of course I haven’t forgotten the actual moment. I haven’t forgotten where we were, what he said, how he looked, how I felt.. you know.. all the important details.
I also swore to myself that I’d never forget the day..
But here we are, January 8th and I hadn’t remembered until this past weekend.
Hubby proposed to me on January 2nd, 2010 and it totally slipped my mind this year.
The only reason I remembered was because Hubby was updating his Facebook timeline with some important information and he asked me what year he proposed. He should remember too, right?
I just thought that important dates like that would stick with me forever. The memory of the day hasn’t left my mind, but I figured neither would the date… but it did!
I know life gets hectic and things get overlooked, but I hope to always remember those important moments in my life.
Thank God for reminders!
Ok.. so I know we were still a few days away from the end of 2013.. but with the way my blogging has been this month, I might as well do it now..
I started the year with a rambunctious one year old with an ear infection. She had a rough Christmas, ended up on antibiotics, and rang in the new year wide awake and partying with the rest of us.. she was a bucket full of words and started experimenting with 2-3 word sentences.. she was full of energy.. full of happiness.. full of love..
The year went on…
We enjoyed ourselves tremendously this year..
We took a trip to Hawaii. We spent 6 out of the 10 days playing on beaches.
We went to Las Vegas for Thanksgiving. Both M and I got sick right after, but thankfully, we are both recovered..
We went to the San Diego Zoo and the Safari Park.. M LOVED it..
We recently visited the Birch Aquarium and purchased membership passes.. I can’t wait for a whole year of tide pools and aquarium exhibits..
Things weren’t always so pleasant.
This year provided me with the scare of the lifetime. While M was battling roseola, she had a very scary febrile seizure.. since then, I haven’t dealt with her colds and sicknesses the same again.
There weren’t a lot of sniffles this year, until we got to fall and winter. There weren’t a lot of ear infections either. That’s a GREAT thing.
Hubby and I had a great year. We celebrated 5 years of dating and 3 years of marriage. We celebrated small, but with out little family, it was totally worth it.
M’s obsessions started with Masha and The Bear videos on Youtube in Russian. Throughout the year, she’s added surprise egg videos on Youtube and Play Doh product reviews.
Her television obsessions still include Dora the Explorer, but she’s added on almost all other Nick Jr shows. She loves Lalaloopsy, Go, Diego, Go, The Wonderpets, and Paw Patrol. Paw Patrol is her newest favorite show. She can quote all the episodes we watch On Demand, and she knows every single character and will pretend she is every single character. She’s also discovered My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic and some Barbie cartoons on Netflix.
We end the year with a very different M than what we started with. I guess it happens.. she’s very communicative now. We can have a conversation. She can talk in sentences. She can follow directions. She’s still very happy and energetic. She is also hilarious and our endless form of entertainment..
The one thing that I love that has grown in her during the year is her affection. She has grown to be very affectionate and loving. I cherish every random hug and kiss I get from her because I know it may end at any moment.
2013 had been nothing but blessings. I’m so very thankful that we had been showered with non-stop blessings this year. Looking back and thinking about 2013 has shown me how much M and our family has grown and matured in just one year.
2013 flew by faster than I could have ever imagined, but allowing myself to look back has shown me that we have accomplished a lot in this blur.
Can’t wait for 2014 and it’s adventures!