Archive for November 2013
M is learning about orientations..
Over, under and behind.
If you ask her where something is, it’s usually behind something or under something.
Other times, it’s hiding, according to her..
It’s super cute.
Sometimes she likes to make it a game for herself.
For example, at the restaurant the other day…
Hides crayons under the menu..
M: Mimi, where’s crayons??
Me: I don’t know, where is it?!
M: Undah pay-peh (Translation: Under paper)
I have to say that it makes it easier to for me to tell her where to find things when she loses them. I can now tell her that her toy is under the chair and she knows what I’m talking about. I can tell her that her sippy cup is behind the recliner, and she knows just where to go!
Have I told you how much I love this age???
The “song and dance” gene has finally been activated in my little girl.
I LOVE IT!
She sings as many songs as she knows. She dances to every song she hears..
I’m so proud!
I can’t to put her in dance lessons!
If you didn’t know, I took ballet, tap and jazz dance lesson from age 10 to age 16. I started singing in public at about 19 years old. I did community theater from about 19 to 28 years old. I cantored and sang in the church choir from about 2007 – 2010 .. I loved every moment of it. I would have loved to continue, but life just shifted and so did my priorities.
It’s so fun to see M exploring the performing arts side of her. Watching her dance and sing her little heart out makes me so happy. She always has the cutest smile when she does it.
What things from your life do you want to see your child have an interest in?
Ok.. so I dropped the ball on the whole “Thankful November” thing I wanted to do this year..
I figured that since tomorrow is Thanksgiving, I’d make up for it and just do a post about what I’m thankful for..
Obviously, I’m thankful for family. Not only my little family of Hubby, M and I, but my entire family.. parents, brother, aunts, uncles, cousins, in laws, sibling-in-laws, nieces, nephews.. you related to me? I’m thankful for you.. A major source of support and love comes from all of you. I can’t thank you all enough for just being in my life.
I’m especially thankful for M. She’s my endless source of unconditional love and entertainment. That girl loves me, and I hope that I never disappoint her. I’m so thankful that she’s the little person I get to raise.
I’m thankful for Hubby. He is my partner in crime. He is my teammate. I am so very thankful that I get to spend the rest of my life with him. He’s loving, he’s supportive, he’s entertaining, and he’s challenging. I love him and I can’t wait to see what else our lives have in store for us.
I’m thankful for the roof over my head.
I’m thankful for the ability to wake up every morning.
I’m thankful that I can function from day to day.
I’m thankful for my friends. I’ve had to let go of some the negativity in my inner circle and regain my bearings. I’m just thankful for the friends I do have helped keep my trust in basic friendships. I’m thankful for the new friends I’ve made this past year and I’m thankful for the friendships of the past that have been rekindled due to social networking.
I’m thankful for crafting.
I’m thankful for photographs.
I’m thankful for cameras.
I’m thankful for coffee.
I’m thankful for 2013.
I’m thankful for life.
There are so many other things I’m thankful for. I’ve probably forgotten some major ones and I’m sure I’ll remember them once this entry has been published…
I hope you all have a great Thanksgiving and a great beginning of the holiday season.
I will be taking the day off from the blog tomorrow to spend time with my family.. I hope you all have the opportunity to share this holiday with your family!
Yes. I have been off the blog for a few days.
Toddler germs are really potent.
I caught whatever M was dealing with.
M has gotten over it quite quickly.
What ever she was dealing with absolutely floored me! There weren’t enough steam baths, decongestants, tissues and hot tea in the world that was going to make me better. Seriously.
I was so stuffed up one night that I was so absolutely miserable and angry at the world.
I just couldn’t stop complaining and ranting and sulking and just being absolutely miserable just because I couldn’t breathe through my nose.
A little melodramatic, I know.. but I couldn’t help it.
My poor M, because she wanted to be with me at all times, she had to hear about how miserable I was. I’d lie there and she’d look at me.. and I’d just pour my frustrated heart out to her.
And if you’re wondering, no, I never blamed her for my cold. It’s not like she gave it to me on purpose. It’s not her fault.
Luckily, the severe congestion only lasted one night. I’m still battling congestion, but it’s not as bad as that one sad night. The cold seems to be lingering for me, while M is pretty much on the mend.
I hope this cold won’t be too bad during Thanksgiving, I’d love to have some sense of taste back when I eat some yummy Thanksgiving food..
I picked up M from Grandma’s house yesterday and noticed a little bit of a runny nose.
I wiped it up and carried on with whatever I was doing.
I looked at her again and her nose was running again!
Oh no! This couldn’t be a good sign.
Now, she’s all stuffed up and running at the same time. She sounds so nasally, it’s cute and sad at the same time.
It’s that time of year where the sniffles are heard all over the place.
We’re ready! We’ve got nasal spray, tissues, fever reducer, Vicks vapor run, the humidifier and a thermometer.
I hope that there will be no ear infections this season, but.. we all know it’s inevitable. I just hope that she won’t get too many this year.
Sunday night, M slept in the toddler bed.
I have to admit, I cheated a little bit.
M skipped her nap on Sunday, so she was super sleepy by about 9:30-10pm. I had her on my lap on the recliner until she fell asleep. Once she fell asleep, Hubby and I tucked her in her little bed.
I could not get a good peaceful sleep! Every little move jolted me awake. Even the silence would jolt me awake and I’d have to look over and see if she was ok. Hubby would also get up and look at her at the slightest sound. He says it was because he took a nap during the day and was unable to sleep, but I think it was because he missed her in the bed also…
Halfway through the night, maybe around 1-2am, M started rustling in her bed. Of course, Hubby and I woke up to check on her. She seemed fine until she popped up and started to look around.
She was looking for me.
I told her that I was right there next to her and of course she raises her arms up for me to carry her. Immediately, I picked her up and brought her to the big bed.
She spent the rest of the night snuggled up against me and we all were able to fall asleep.
It’s going to be an adjustment for all of us.
I thought that Hubby would have been so relieved to have her out of the bed. He wasn’t 100% on board with the whole co-sleeping arrangement I was so comfortable with, but I know that as time had gone on, it was something he had gotten used to.
We just have to learn to get used to this new arrangement… maybe.
A few months or so ago, we mentioned toddler beds.. I knew it was an inevitability, but I just figured we’d cross that bridge when we get there..
We got to the bridge this weekend.
Saturday morning, I woke up wedged (literally) between Hubby and M. They were pressed up so much against me that I had no room to move. It was uncomfortable, but I felt loved. Who wouldn’t want the two people you love the most being so close to them?!
Anyway, we all woke up and Hubby and I were having a conversation about how squished I was between them. Hubby mentioned toddler beds, and I brushed it off. I didn’t want to deal with that yet.
But it was as if M was listening in on our conversation and actually understanding what we were saying because she suddenly said, “Sleep in small bed? Yes?”
Me: “You want to sleep on a small bed? You want your own bed?”
Me: “You will sleep in a small bed? Where will me Mimi and Daddy sleep?”
M: “Big bed.”
Well.. later on that day, we purchased a toddler bed. Yes.
We looked at Babies R Us and priced them.. The frame alone was $119, while the mattress cost anywhere between $199 to $79! That didn’t include any sheet sets, we didn’t bother to look.
Luckily, next door to the Babies R Us was a Target. We found a cute bedframe that looks almost like our bed for only $79. The mattress we chose was $69. The sheet set we purchased (Sofia the First) was about $12. We have the Target card, so we have a 5% discount on all our purchases AND we had gift cards.
I have to say, I’m pretty proud of myself for not wanting to get the most expensive, like I used to.. I think I’m finally growing up!
We assembled the bed and put it in our bedroom.
It’s one thing to get her a toddler bed.. it’s another issue for me to deal with to get her out of our bedroom! Baby steps..
Bed time came and she went straight to the toddler bed, which she called “sofia bed” because of the Sofia the First sheets. She put the comforter around her and asked for the lights to be off. I really thought she was going to go through with it.
I go up into my bed and she follows.
Me: “Aren’t you going to sleep in the sofia bed?”
M: shakes her head “No, sleep in mimi bed?”
So, as much as she loves her toddler bed, at this moment, she thinks its just another new toy.
We’ll try again tonight, but I won’t force it. I will put her there for naps, but bed time will be a process..
I guess having a toddler bed isn’t so bad after all..